Friday, September 28, 2007

THERAPY "When you can't afford a Shrinkkkk"

I couldn't help but feel that a new found friend blogger was speaking straight to me. Even if it wasn't the case, its as if God led me to find someone who would put some important things in perspective. And so...today the list continues.....in possibly a more positive light?..well maybe for today.

21. Getting Over you...By Getting Over Myself.
22. Conclusions...aren't the best way for me to live by. They are usually false.
23. Dramatizing...allows me to wallow in disbelief of my circumstances. And its okay to allow yourself to just have your slump...all you want. But its time to give myself a time limit.
24. Rules...makes you feel like you are in control. I can only be in control of my OWN choices.....(snaps her fingers) darn it!
25. I'd like to think that I don't put Labels on people. But I do...its the only way to make myself feel like i am in CONTROL...again. Cause I know what to expect. But..you don't know what to expect...so its just time to let it go.
26. Nobody likes an anal ass. So i have to realize that nothing in life is perfect. "It is what it is"
27. Instincts and emotions are what i'm not sure if I've been able to distinguish yet. Sometimes i mistake the two for the same. Becareful...
28. Its always "easier" to see the negative side of things. I've always allowed it to...ahem..again make me feel like I am in control. Because you think that if you expect the negative..you won't get thrown off your feet....wrong. You STILL will. so..."positive" thinking? Yes?
29. I'm not a toy to be played with. And until I can learn to conduct myself in a way to send that message...i need not deal with anymore relationships
30. I'm cute though...and he's dumb for losing that. lol

2 comments:

Southern_Lady said...

I am so feeling #29!

ladiisoul said...

yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!THATS IT REENIE!!!! YOU GO HEAD WIT IT...see you are well on your way to wholeness!