Rules for the Jealous Dater...

Like I've always said... I'm a jealous girl. I can't really ignore it. The best thing I can do is try to control it. Notice the key word in that previous sentence..try, lol.

So I'm hanging out with, "my boy" as my friend calls him these days. He's mad cool. Well anyways, i'm hanging with him and his best friend. Yeup, just me and the boys. And these guys are crazy funny and just telling stories. Of course, the stories of "my boys" past girlfriends comes to the surface. They joke about this girl and that. They talk about this girls..."titties" and her body. And i'm smiling, laughing..chuckling...and ripping my napkin into shreds under the table.

Oh the life of a jealous girl. Its quite hard even now to accept that the person with you did have another life before you! Yeah, you may say... get a hold of yourself, there were guys before him in your case. Yeah..thats true. But nothing can stop the jealousy from arising out of no where. Its hard, and if you suffer from this, I encourage you to take the attempt with me to atleast control our jealous streaks. lol.

Some of me begins to fall into that whole deep thought phase, where I just think to myself, i'm just his present trend, and that since there were more before me, there will be more after me. Unfortunately, that may be so true, but it wont help your relationship if you go on that hinge. So where do we start? Lets start with the fact of accepting that you are not the only cute chick that runs through this universe. There are many cute chicks. Actually...more cute chicks than cute guys. Waaayyy more. Meaning there were more before you, and then there will be more after you. Nah Mean?

So after we finally establish that. We can get to the good part... which is. He wont ever meet anyone else like you. Got it? With the amount of chicks that walk through this world.. its amazing how God makes each one....each and everyone is just beautifully unique in their own way. You've got to take these guys by the ears, the eyes, and eventually the balls, and show them ...nothing more but yourself. Because that will be enough. Stop thinking of everyone else, and just focus on yourself. How easy is that? lol. Even when you hear about this girl and that.. if you walk with the confidence that what you have are righteous, rich, and unique...you'll never lose at your fight with jealousy. And even if your times together are temporary... your mark will be permanent.